Make Your Own Wedding Ring?
Normally a man would buy the ring for the women and ask her to married him.
But Its not that way right now. My girlfriend gave me a ring and asked me
to married her. Of course I said yes, was alittle weird but it was okay..
Here's my question.
Should I get her a ring too ? or wait until we get marry to buy the rings.
Does the man buy both rings ? Hey, I'm new at all this :)
From where I sit, it seems to me that the two of you can make up your own rule
for this sub-section of life. And it doesn't really matter whether it follows
old school thinking or not, just so long as the two of you are happy and
satisfied with your decisions.
So you get an engagement ring. If she's good with that, and you're good with
that, then from where I sit, that's all that matters.
You're thinking about getting her an engagement ring too? Well, I won't do it
just because everybody else seems to do it. But if it's something that would
make both you and her happy, if it's truly something which is going to be
meaningful to each of you, then yes, by all means, go for it.
But again, only do this because if it's meaningful for the two of you, not just
being a blind sheep doing it just because other do it, but rather the gesture
has substance for each of you. Do it only if it makes you happy and only if it
also make her happy.
Heck, give each other engagement canoes if that's of more substance to you
both. The point, however, is that the object itself is not quite so important
as the gesture and the underlying symbolism. What's important is that the
giving of these tokens of your love and affection are meaningful to each of
you.
So if these are your reasons for getting such a ring, then by all means, go for
it. But not at all because of any reasons anybody else does it. You make up
your own rules in this department what's most meaningful to each of you.